Creative Expression

Find ways to express yourself and process your experiences through creative outlets like art, music writing and more.

Note: We’re glad to share these resources from organizations and individuals we know. While we do our best to keep them current, links may change over time, and Dear Jack is not responsible for the content on external sites. If you come across a link that no longer works, please drop us a note so we can fix it!

Resources

Telling Your Story on Video, September 2025, Storytelling Series: part 3 of 3

We were honored to be joined by Sally Kidd who shared tips and tricks from her vast experience in media.

Some tips for telling your story on video:

  • Choose a quiet area with a quiet/clean background
  • Light up your face, don’t be backlit
  • Horizontal video is great for YouTube, TV, and websites; Vertical video is great for TikTok, Instagram reels, Facebook stories and Snapchat
  • Wear solid colors
  • If you need to refer to notes, it is best to have them slightly to the right of your camera.
  • Keep in mind that this is all best case scenario. You won’t always feel up to managing all of this and that is okay! It is better to get your story out than to wait for the perfect time.
  • Telling Your Story on Video Presentation

    Storytelling: The Power of Your Voice, August 2025, Storytelling Series: part 2 of 3

    We were honored to be joined by award winning storytelling coach, Michael McRay who did a workshop on how to tell an effective story. Here are our favorite takeaways.

    • Leaders help people see. “The wise teacher does not bid you enter the house of his wisdom, but rather leads you to the threshold of your own mind.” -Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet
    • The etymology of the word story comes from words that mean “to see” and “wise person”
    • A story is how we talk about our experience of the things that happen to us
    • If you’re not wondering what’s going to happen next within 15 seconds, you might not be telling a story.
    • Humans have been storytelling for about 10,000 years. It is believed to have started as a way to help navigate the world more safely, to learn vicariously through others’ experiences.
    • The two main purposes of storytelling are (1) to pass along information and (2) to build connection
    • “The shortest distance between two people is a story”
    • Stories drive connection, connection drives trust, trust drives influence
    • Storytelling is stealth technology that slips under the radar and teaches us by embedding key points and values
    • “A story is fact plus emotion”
    • Story is in the specifics – summary is not story – show rather than tell

    Michael then gave everyone a prompt, “Tell about a moment that you realized your lie wouldn’t be the same in big or small ways due to your cancer diagnosis. What happened? How did you realize it? Paint a picture of life before. Show us the after.

    Storytelling frameworks:

    STAR model – situation, tension, action result

    Storytelling Canvas

    • I will tell about the time…
    • So there I was…(time, place, characters)
    • I/we wanted…(tension – longing and desires of character)
    • But…(what was in the way)
    • And so…(action – choices that are made as a result of the tension)
    • And therefore…
    • Until finally…

    If you want to tell your story from the prompt, avoid telling people about your diagnosis, instead (as Ari wisely said) “come and live with me for a few minutes.”

    Michael McRay
    Michael’s presentation

    Through the Lens: Photo Storytelling, July 2025, Storytelling Series: part 1 of 3

    We were honored to have Dr. Jen Currin-McCullock join us to share about her studies and approach for photo storytelling. She walked us through the process using prompts available in her presentation and facilitated discussions.

    Through the Lens: Photo Storytelling

    Healing Through Writing, collaboration with Elephants and Tea, March 2025

    We were honored to have Lisa from Elephants and Tea and Wendy from MD Anderson guide us through a Healing Through Writing Workshop. A few thoughts on writing as a healing modality: write what comes to you without judgment; the goal is to follow the pathway and allow yourself to process what you’re thinking and feeling; it can be helpful to put your thoughts on paper and then put the journal away; writing can be intimidating; sharing your writing with family and friends can be helpful for them too.

    Elephants and Tea regularly has writing workshops that are free for AYAs to attend. Check out their Programs and Events page for more information.

    During the workshop, we went through 5 prompts, took 3 minuts to write in response to each and then discussed what we wrote or how we felt about the prompt and process. Here are the prompts:

    • What is something that you are proud of?
    • I felt really challenged when…
    • Are there any aspects of your identity that have changed since your diagnosis and how does that make you feel?
    • What does help look like for you?
    • I feel a sense of comfort when…
    Art Therapy with Twist Out Cancer, November 2024

    We were honored to have Callie Ludwig, LPCC-S, LPAT, ATR-BC, art therapist and LifeList alum give us an overview of Twist Out Cancer, Art Therapy, and walk us through an activity. See the presentation to learn more about art therapy, Twist Out Cancer, an activity walk-through, and how to find an art therapist in your area.

    Music for Self-Care, July 2024

    We were honored to have Megan McDonald, board certified music therapist, neurologic music therapist and music teacher join us to talk about Music for Self-Care while going through treatment.

    We chatted about all things music and self-care and worked together to brainstorm some ideas of songs for playlists. Here are some helpful documents:

    Music for Self-Care Leisure Ideas

    Ultimate Coping Playlist Brainstorm

    Music for Self-Care Presentation

    Guided Progressive Muscle Relaxation (no music)

    Guided Progressive Muscle Relaxation (with background music)

    Healing Through Writing Workshop with Elephants and Tea, May 2024

    We were honored to have Rachel from Elephants and Tea and Wendy from MD Anderson guide us through a Healing Through Writing Workshop. A bit about narrative therapy: writing can help us make sense of our story and give words to our experiences. This can be a blog, notes you keep on your phone, scrapbooks with journaling, journals, or just jotting down your stream of consciousness. You don’t have to know where you are going to start and writing it down somewhere can help you think through what is happening, get it out of your head, down on paper, and reflect on it. Narrative therapy can really help when you don’t have someone right there who “gets it” as you can write to process and know that there is no judgment.

    Elephants and Tea regularly has writing workshops that are free for AYAs to attend. Check out their Programs and Events page for more information.

    During our workshop, we went through 5 prompts, took 3 minutes to write in response to each and then discussed what we wrote or how we felt about the prompt and process. Here are the prompts:

    • A small thing that makes me smile is…
    • Finish this statement, I will never forget the day…
    • One thing I wish people understood about my cancer experience is…
    • Think about a place or an item that gave you comfort during your treatment. What about this place or thing made you feel comfortable and safe? Describe that place/thing in as much detail as you can.
    • What does rest look like for you?
    Playlist Creation, July 2023

    We worked together to create two amazing playlists. Give them a listen!

    Dear Jack Sunshine Grooves

    Dear Jack’s Laidback Vibes